What Makes a Great Life Partner???

• Someone who knows what you need before you say it.
• Someone who knows when to laugh and when to cry.
• Someone who truly listens when you have something to say.
• Someone that's there for you during the good and bad times.
• Someone who loves you with all their heart and soul.
• Someone who is interested in reality and not as a fashion display.
• Someone who is caring, honest, open & Responsive
• Someone you can trust them like a sibling, confide in like a friend but most of all, love as the great lover they are.
• Someone who is never critical and ill-tempered in respect to your needs.
• Someone who knows when things have to be compromised in the relationship.
• Someone who understands listening is a key, but using what is heard is even more important.
• Someone who's there for you no matter what.
• Someone who is trustful, a friend and someone who gives a shoulder to cry on.
• Someone with a great sense of humor.
• Someone who has things in common with you.
• Someone who takes time to listen and enjoy you for who you are and tries not to make you something else.
• Someone with a constant open ear, open heart, and open mind to accept and love people for who the really are.
• Someone who will always be there to support your ideas without argument and love you for everything that you are.
• Someone that can get a point across without yelling.
• Someone that remembers all the cute stupid stuff you love.
• Someone that has a personality with qualities you don't have yourself, but admire greatly in them.
• Someone who realizes you're two separate people, and appreciates the differences.
• Someone who can sense a mood problem, and not take it personally.
• Someone who understands the difference between PMS, and a real problem.
• Someone who can make you happy when your sad.
• Someone who tells you the truth even if you don't want to hear it.
• Someone who will not hurt you intentionally.
• Someone who is a sweet, romantic person who cherishes you no matter what.
• Someone that you can laugh with.
• Someone who you can feel comfortable with and that you don't care what kind of weird stuff they see you do because you know they will still love you no matter what.
• Someone who will love you in spite of your little idiosyncrasies.
• Someone that would do anything to show how much they care.
• Someone who is a great pal, a great kisser, and a great lover!
• Someone who allows you to be yourself around them.
• Someone who will respect you.
• Someone who cherishes your hopes and is kind to your dreams.
• Someone who knows you're not perfect, but treats you as though you are.
• Someone who listens with their heart and is your source of inspiration

I Want to Go Back in Time When…..

I Want to Go Back in Time When…..

• Decisions were made by going eeny-meeny-miney-mo.
• Mistakes were corrected by simply exclaiming, do over!
• Race issue meant arguing about who ran the fastest.
• Money issues were handled by whoever was the banker in Monopoly.
• Catching the fireflies could happily occupy an entire evening.
• It wasn't odd to have two or three best friends.
• Being old, referred to anyone over 20.
• The net on a tennis court was the perfect height to play volleyball and rules didn't matter.
• It was unbelievable that dodgeball wasn't an Olympic event.
• Having a weapon in school, meant being caught with a slingshot.
• Nobody was prettier than Mom.
• Scrapes and bruises were kissed and made better.
• It was a big deal to finally be tall enough to ride the big people rides at the amusement park.
• Getting a foot of snow was a dream come true.
• Abilities were discovered because of a double-dog-dare.
• Saturday morning cartoons weren't 30-minute ads for action figures.
• No shopping trip was complete, unless a new toy was brought home.
• Oly-oly-oxen-free made perfect sense.
• Spinning around, getting dizzy and falling down was cause for giggles.
• The worst embarrassment was being picked last for a team.
• War was a card game.
• Water balloons were the ultimate weapon.
• Baseball cards in the spokes transformed any bike into a motorcycle.
• Taking drugs meant orange-flavored chewable aspirin.
• Ice cream was considered a basic food group.
• Older siblings were the worst tormentors, but also the fiercest protectors.
• If you can remember most or all of these, then you have LIVED!!!!

Dilbert!!!!!

Pic:1

Pic:2

Pic:3

Pic:4

Pic:5

Pic:6

Top 5 Signs to know where your relation is standing!

One day, you are madly in love. You're cuddling on the couch, reading love poems and feeding each other sushi. And that's when it happens: Your partner sits you down for the "It's-Not-You, It's-Me" talk. You're confused and left wondering, "How could I have missed the signs?" Breaking up is never easy. Your ego and heart are bound to get bruised. But if you could just see the breakup coming, it might make the whole business easier to stomach

Top five signs you're about to get dumped:

1. Picking fights: No one is saying you have to get along 24/7. Constructive conflict can actually be good for your relationship. But if you find that your partner has become argumentative over petty issues like your clothes or choice of restaurant, that should serve as a warning sign that he/she may be looking for an excuse to bail.

2. Forgetting to call: Used to be that your phone would ring all day long with your sweetie wanting to make plans or calling just to say, "I love you." Now your significant other doesn't even call when he/she is running three hours late. It may seem obvious, but going from speed dial to a blocked number is a sure sign that your relationship may be nearing its expiration date.

3. Changing their stripes: A major change in appearance can be a sign that your partner is looking toward greener pastures. Whether they've chopped off their hair, lost some weight or gone from a normal hair to a Coloured haired babe, major cosmetic changes should be noted. Of course, there's nothing wrong with being a little vain, but if the change is accompanied by any of the other signs listed here, you may need to get ready to go solo.

4. Criticizing: If your sweetie isn't feeling you anymore, don't be surprised if he/she becomes less tolerant of everything, from how you brush your teeth to how you tie your shoes. Constant criticism is a telltale sign that your days as a twosome are numbered.

5. Losing sexual interest: A healthy sex life can make or break a relationship. If you find that your partner is becoming more sexually aloof, you need to get to the root of the issue. While it's natural to have less sex as you settle into a comfortable groove together, waiting weeks or months to have sexual contact is a sign that something is amiss.

Now that you know the warning signs, don't panic. Just because your partner exhibits some of these behaviors, that doesn't necessarily mean the relationship is over. In fact, it's usually a combination of signs and not one isolated incident that foreshadows a breakup. If you're worried that your partner is itching to get out, the most important thing you can do is sit down and discuss your issues in an honest and open manner. If you take these signs as your cue to improve communication, your relationship may just have a fighting chance

What Is TIME???

WHAT EXACTLY IS TIME?

THE answer is, we simply do not know. Time, goes the joke, is Nature's way of stopping everything happening at once. Time defines our lives, it is how we measure our very being. Yet as to what it is, we are as in the dark as the ancients. That is not to say that we do not understand what time does. Physicists such as Albert Einstein have come up with some great insights as to the properties of time. We give it a symbol and plug it into various equations and it works very well. But that, again, does not tell us what time actually is. Is it a 'river', which flows from past to future? If so, a river of what? What causes it to flow, and what sets the rate at which it flows? Would it be possible to swim, as it were, upstream, and travel through time? Could we stop the river flowing altogether? Science fiction writers say all this is possible, as, surprisingly, do most physicists. But before we build a time machine, we will need to get a grip on what this most elusive and slippery thing actually is. Ultimately, all these mysteries will be solved.

(Ref: Mumbai Mirror)

Can I Live for EVER???

CAN I LIVE FOR EVER?

Possibly, but not yet. Ageing — and particularly ways of stopping the process — is one of those issues that many scientists would rather not talk about because it raises disturbing moral and ethical questions. For a start, on a practical level, we do not know what ageing really is. We take it for granted that our bodies wear out as we grow older, yet this is not really the case. For the first 20 years of our lives, our bodies grow stronger, more efficient, more resistant to disease. It is only later that things start going wrong. Why? According to the evolutionary theory of ageing, our bodies start to fail us because in the ‘wild’ we would expect to die anyway, at the age of 30-50, from cold, starvation, an attack by sabretoothed tigers and so on. There was no point in our having evolved to cope with the diseases of old age, if we were never going to live that long anyway. But that doesn’t really tell us what is going on when we age, what drives the genetic ‘clock’ that makes skin dry, our hair go grey and our bones brittle. Only when we understand what truly drives these processes will we stand a chance of combating them. And then, of course, we will be faced with a huge moral problem: do we really want to live in a world where some people will never grow old? Or in a world where (inevitably) only a lucky elite will be able to afford the treatments to allow this to happen?

(Ref: Mumbai Mirror)

Am I The Same Person???

AM I THE SAME PERSON I WAS A MINUTE AGO?

WHAT a strange question! Yet this goes to the heart of one of the most vexed questions in the whole of science and philosophy - that of identity. On the face of it, the answer is obvious: of course I am. But think again. Ten minutes ago, every cell in your brain was doing something different to what it is doing now. Every few years, your body is mostly replaced. If it is possible to rebuild the burned Cutty Sark, using new timbers, and many other new parts, is it really the same ship that plied the seas 150 years ago? Purists say ‘No’. But if that is the case, then you are certainly not the same person you were when you were a child or a baby. This question shows the way we think about ourselves runs contrary to what is actually happening. And it has practical implications: Should people be held responsible for crimes they committed decades previously? How do we establish someone’s identity? Is it DNA or something more nebulous? For what it is worth, it could be concluded that our identity is largely a fiction. We are the same person through time only in the same way that a river is the same river as it flows down the same course. But of course the water, the ripples and eddies, change every second.

(Ref:Mumbai Mirror)

Some Embarrassing Moments!!!!

Ok..tooo much of serious stuff in last couple of blogs.... now time for some humourous stuff....

Here are some of the Embarrassing situations which i could think of.... imagine yourself in these situations......

1. One day you are going down in the elevator when just another person in there whom you havent met until then, starts talking. He says 'How are you?" and You answer "Fine" surprised at it. He then says "What else are you up to" and you reply "nothing". Finally he turns to you and says "Do You Mind I Am On The Phone"!!. It was then that you realize that he was talking on his Mobile

2. You are at a wedding of a relative of your loved one… and the brides mother is an unusually large, homely, unkempt woman...no matter what she wore or how she did her hair she couldn't help but look horrid. You want to say to her upon shaking hands in the receiving line.... ‘You really look nice’, (as You know she spent some time trying her best and it was worth the effort as she did look reasonably nice). You are all ready in the line and as you take her hand... Instead of saying "You really look nice" You blurted out... "You even look nice".. and that too in front of the Bride and Bridegroom and other guests waiting in the reception line!!!

3. You're walking up to your new boyfriends work and he's watching you approach him, along with some of his work friends and they're all checking you out. You're wearing these brand new sexy black pants which kind of flare with a split down the side, and yes one of your feet catches the other side of your pants, and you go flying, in front of all of them. Getting up from that one takes a lot of composure.

4. You have gone for a matrimonial get-together in some hotel. You find an amazing guy / girl staring at you. You reciprocate by staring! You start building hopes, hopes about going n talking to him/her, planning about future, wat if things work out wid the person n stuff…. Suddenly you see him / her whispering something into some elder person’s ears and soon someone from their end come and talk to someone from your end about fixing up a meeting. You are happy to the fullest, and then when introduction begins, they introduce the person whom you are staring at as their elder son / d’ter / son-in law / or d’ter-in-law… and thn the actual girl candidate / guy candidate comes… and then you realize that the person was staring at you for the candidate and not for self!!!!! [I have been through this :) :P…. trust me….. the marriage meet never happens but the embarrassment remains till you leave the place]

5. You are out with your loved one and his/ her friends. You were sitting in a room and u get an urgent urge to sneeze. (I think we all have this problem occasionally) .. but then when you are about to sneeze you fart as well.. Then you try to play it cool.. by acting like nothing had happend.. You could have swore, the guy / girl you love heard you but did not say anything. Wow. it sounds terrible and you face turns bright red.

The Suffix TION!!!

Now i dedicate this blog to my bestest best friend who has this affection for the word 'TION'...

We always seem to have a debate over the words like expectaTION, frustaTION, clarificaTION, justificaTION.... et al.. . (Today whn i had a fight wid him and those words again came up during the conversation...i thought of this)

Aahhhhhhhhhhhhhh finally found a para tht justifies his love for the suffix TION!!!!!!!!!!

"Congratulations on the termination of your isolation and may I express an appreciation of your determination to end the desperation and frustration which has caused you so much consternation in giving you the inspiration to make a combination to bring an accumulation to the population "

Wassay Football??? he he he he

Aaah Goverment!!!

Salary & Govt. Concessions for a Member of Parliament (MP)

Monthly Salary : Rs. 12,000
Expense for Constitution per month : Rs.10,000
Office expenditure per month : Rs.14,000

Traveling concession (Rs. 8 per km) : Rs.48,000 (For a visit to Delhi & return: 6000 km)
Daily BETA during parliament meets : Rs.500
Charge for 1 class (A/C) in train : Free (For any number of times)
(All over India )

Charge for Business Class in flights : Free for 40 trips / year (With wife or P.A.)
Rent for MP hostel at Delhi : Free

Electricity costs at home : Free up to 50,000 units
Local phone call charge : Free up to 1,70,000 calls.

TOTAL expense for a MP per year : Rs. 32,00,000
TOTAL expense for 5 years : Rs. 1,60,00,000

For 534 MPs, the expense for 5 years : Rs. 8,54,40,00,000 (nearly 855 cores)

And they are elected by THE PEOPLE OF INDIA , by the largest democratic processin the world, not intruded into the parliament on their own or by any qualification.

Are they worth it, or would you prefer an IIM graduate (please think of this whenever you vote)

Mi Mumbaikar!!!!!

Things that proove that you are a Pure Mumbai-ite!!!!

1. You say "town " and expect everyone to know that this means south ofChurchgate.

2 You speak in a dialect of Hindi called 'Bambaiya Hindi', which onlyBombayites can understand.

3. Your door has more than three locks.

4. Rs 500 worth of groceries fit in one paper bag.

5. Train timings (9.27, 10.49 etc) are really important events of life.

6. You spend more time each month traveling than you spend at home.

7. You call an 8' x 10' clustered room a Hall.

8. You pay Rs 10,000 for a 1 room flat, the size of walk-in closet and you think it's a "steal."

9. You have the following sets of friend: school friends, college friends, neighborhood friends, office friends and yes, train friends, aspecies unique only in Bombay.

10. Cabbies and bus conductors think you are from Mars if you call the roads by their Indian name, they are more familiar with Warden Road,Peddar Road, Altamount Road .

11. Stock market quotes are the only other thing, besides cricket which you follow passionately.

12. The first thing that you read in the Times of India is the "BombayTimes" supplement.

13. You take fashion seriously. You're suspicious of strangers who are actually nice to you.

14. Hookers, beggars and the homeless are invisible.

15. You compare Bombay to New York's Manhattan instead of any other cities of India.

16. The most frequently used part of your car is the horn.

17. You insist on calling CST as VT, and Sahar and Santacruz airports instead of Chatrapati Shivaji International Airport.

18. You consider eye contact an act of overt aggression.

19. Your idea of personal space is no one actually standing on your toes.

20. Being truly alone makes you nervous.

21. You love wading through knee deep mucky water in the monsoons, and actually call it ''romantic'.

22. Only in Bombay , you would get Chinese Dosa and Jain Onions

Amazingly True!!!!! I am proud to be a thorough Mumbaikar!!!

Mumbai--The So Called City of Dreams!!!!

Some Interesting Facts about MUMBAI---The city of Dreams!!!

Bombay has no bombs and is a harbour not a bay.
Churchgate has neither a church nor a gate. It is a railway station.
There is no darkness in Andheri.
Lalbaag is neither red nor a garden.
No king ever stayed at Kings Circle. Nor did Queen Victoria stay at Victoria Terminus. Nor is there any princess at Princess Street.
Lower Parel is at the same level as Parel
There are no marines or sailors at Marine Lines.
The Mahalaxmi temple is at Haji Ali not at Mahalaxmi.
There are no pigs traded at Dukar bazaar.
Teen bati is a junction of 3 roads, not three lamps.
Trams used to terminate at Kings circle not Dadar*Tram Terminus (DadarT.T.).
Breach Candy is not a sweetmeat market, but there is a Hospital.
Safed Pool has the dirtiest and blackest water.
You cannot buy coal at Kolsa street.
There are no Iron smiths at Lohar chawl.
There are no pot makers at Kumbhar wada.
Lokhandwala complex is not an Iron and steel market.
Null bazaar does not sell taps
You will not find ladyfingers at Bheendi Bazaar.
Kalachowki does not have a black Police station.
Hanging Gardens are not suspended.
Mirchi Gully does not sell chillies.
Figs do not grow in Anjir Wadi,Sitafals do not grow in Sitafal Wadi,Jackfruits do not grow at Fanaswadi

But it is true that you may get fleeced at Chor Bazaar!!!

Jaisa bhi ho.... it always is a City where everything is possible, especially the impossible.

Where telephone bills make a person ill, Where a person cannot sleep without a pill.
Where carbon-dioxide is more than oxygen, Where the road is consideredto be a dustbin, Where a cycle reaches faster than a car

Where college admission means hard cash, Where college canteens are full and classes empty,

Where sky scrapers overlook the slum, Where houses collapse as the monsoon comes, Where the roads see-saw in monsoon, Where people first act and then think, Where the beggars become rich soon...

This is Mumbai my dear, But don't fear, just cheer, come to Mumbai every year!

Aah these kids!!!

Embarrassing yet amusing story!!!

Being a Mother ...

Being a single mother, shree always wanted to do everything perfectly when it came to raising her son. One day, he went to shree with the age-old question...."Mom, where did I come from?" Since shree considered herself a fairly hip, enlightened woman, she immediately stopped what she was doing and sat down with her six-yearold child to begin the oh-so important explanation about the birds and the bees. she navigated, fairly cleverly she thought, through the basics, explaining what she believed a six-year old would understand. He listened intently, his eyes never leaving her face, never once interrupting her and seemingly very interested in what Shree had to say.

She was feeling quite proud of herself, feeling as though she had met and managed a milestone in the "motherhood" department. Her pleasure with her success was short-lived, however, when her son looked directly at her, his head cocked slightly to one side and said "No, mom not sex. I mean like Lisa came from Pensacola , where did I come from?"

You just never really know what is going on in their little minds, do you??

(This was one of the usual forwards which i receive on my mail id. Liked it so posting on my blog...)

The Pink City- For the woman,Of the Woman,By the woman!!!

Male Chauvinists Beware!!!!!

Today's paper carried an article where it says that China has plans for a city where women will rule..... What If??? Just What if ...........................

With a Quivering Pen, A MAN puts down what we would expect from such a city...........

1. Every shop in the town would host a sale 365 days of the year. There is no credit limit. And oh, lots of dressing rooms! The best part? Every shopper is given one male to take with her, who marvels at each of her purchases with earnest interest and gives his honest opinion without ever getting bored.

2. Parallel parking? What parallel parking? All Rules Regarding the parking has been dropped. In case you bang into another vehicle, apologising with a sweet smile and a flutter of the eyelashes is seen as fair compensation.

3. Anyway, men don't need to travel. They'll barely have enough time from their household chores. The local trains in this town will therefore have just one coach in every train reserved for men… should be enough

4. All sports channels are banned. The television channels will have soaps, Desperate Housewives and a special 24-hour version of Oprah. All the theatres show only Julia Roberts' movies. The city library, named after Barbara Cartland, stocks only Mills and Boon, Bridget Jones' Diary and every Cosmopolitan published to date.

5. Salads, salads, salads! Everything is fatfree, carb-free and low-sugar. When you order here, you tell them how many calories you want and they'll make it accordingly. Mc-Donalds has come up with a special burger for this town Little Mac! So tiny, you don't know whether you ate it or inhaled it!

6. No one says the F-word. Oh wait, not the expletive, we meant the 3-letter one that rhymes with 'cat'---i.e. 'FAT'. Mentioning that word in a sentence that contains 'dress' and 'your behind' is punishable by death

7. Technology in women's world comes in 3 colours - pink, light pink or dark pink. To get rid of all ambiguity, every device has only 2 buttons – Yes or No. All phone calls are free

8.Toilet seats are permanently nailed in. If you gotta go, you had better be seated when you do

9.Immigration clearance is dependant on your knowing the difference between mauve and fuschia.

10. No male warrior adulation! The airport, the main railway terminal, the largest park and pretty much everything is named after Jhansi ki Rani or Helen of Troy

11. There is no religious discrimination in women's world. Gucci is God and everyone stands united under the one religion of fashion

12. All bar dancers are males. Bouncers won't be required. There'll be no pub brawls. If two women do get into a catfight, getting involved is crazy anyway.

The motto of the new town will be "women never make mistakes, and men can never refuse women's requests." Now that should send shivers down the spines of every man who has sat in the passenger seat of a car driven by a woman.......

Wat say men ??????????

(ref: Mumbai Mirror)

Cheating v/s Honesty

Another such incident which makes me believe in BEST people more thn private Autowalas [For those who dont know BEST is considered to be the lifeline of mumbai (Road Public Transport Service)]. While the BEST was on strike, The autowalas harassed the public even more. Imagine charging a fare of Rs. 150/- for a distance which is usually charged Rs 15/- (not kidding). I myself have experienced it.

Dunno why but offlate i have had bad incidents with the autowalas in mumbai.

Today morning, Whn i caught an auto for usual station, the Meter reading was minimum, and there was no chance tht it wud increase by a rupee. But the guy actually took 2 mins just to turn his back and take the money from my hand. After i got down, whn the auto wala gave me a tenner back i was like its only 9 Rs. how come u r taking 10. He said meter reading was 10... i was so infuriated wid him, and not only him this is the case with usually all the autowalas, they turn their back only after 2 mins so tht meanwhile one meter falls. arrggghhhhhhhhh Classic Cheating Case.

Same day, Bus Incident (Too many auto and bus incidents, I know):

I took my usual bus and took the ticket (fare of which is Rs 8/-). Gave a Tenner to the conductor, and just walked off ahead after takign the ticket, forgetting to collect the change of Rs 2/-.I was surprised when, after some time in the crowded bus, the conducter nudged me and said 'madam , yeh lijiye aapke 2 Rs. aap bhul gayi lena'.

Not That the 2 Rs. Mattered to me or him. He could have very well kept the change and probably even i wudnt have even asked him, but appreciate his honesty.

What a Difference.... one person cheats to get one rupee, and other person takes the pain of returning 2 Rs.

Now say.... are Autowalas kind and nice or are BEST people??

Few days back I would have preferred Autowalas, but the way incident have been in last few days.... i would prefer BEST.

Rude v/s Kind !!!

Mornings are always Busy and Hectic..and if they are monday morning, All The Best!!!

Came across such mornings yesterday and today!! (read another post for today's incident)... where i had brushes with many types of characters.

Morning started late, cos i slept late... upar se was in a hurry for reaching office on time!!! I usually have a regular autowala who takes me to the station (East)... [Reason for mentioning the exact location - read ahead]. He usually waits for me to be his first passenger, because (he believes) that i am lucky for him (Please note how luck changes according to his mood, whims and fancies). now whn i hopped into his auto, i told him 'Chacha (thts wat i adress him as), aaj West Station le lijiye, der ho gayi hai'. I had expected him to drop me to west station, simple because in past often i have agreed to get down in east even whn i have to go to west cos tht time maybe i have some free time to spare, and also considering or believing the fact tht he always wanted me to be his first passenger. To my disbelief he asked me to catch an other auto, saying tht he doesnt want to go to West. I was like ek din ka sawaal hai, he still refused. In utter Disgust, i got down and caught another auto. Wat Utter Rudeness.... Wat happened to his Luck Charm, and stuff (I Sweared not to sit in his Auto Ever).

At same Time on the same day, I was just about reaching the Bus-stop,whn I realised that my bus is just about to leave the stop. I Tried my luck by showing hand gesture, asking the driver to wait for a moment, so that i could hop in, (Though I wasnt even expecting him to look at me, forget stopping the bus for a moment). To my Surprise, He not only stopped the bus, but also allowed me to get in from the front entrance of the bus (usually in mornings the driviers dont allow passengers to board the bus from the front entrance)... How kind of him, God Bless him :)

How each day we come across characters, who bring us surprise and disbelief at the same time. I had expected the Autowala to drop me to my destination, which he dint. and I never expected the Bus driver to stop the bus for me after leaving the stop, but he did!!! isnt it the general notion that autowalas are decent and bus drivers are rude?? Well, keeping this incident in mind, I beg to differ!!!

Expect the Unexpected.......

Here comes another long weekend with so much hope, enthusiasm, and plans... and down goes the hopes, the enthusiasm and the plans again....

I dont know y do hopes and wishes never get fulfilled.... y dont plans ever get materialised...
In the book of life every page has two sides: we human beings fill the upper side with our plans, hopes and wishes, but providence writes on the other side, and what it ordains is seldom our goal

Doesnt it happen with everyone of us???? Life plays such games with us... one cant even imagine...

Life gives u what u least expected, and refrains from giving you wat u expect....

It also gives us expected things at unexpected time and refrains again from giving expected things at expected times...

Again.... Life gives us unexpected things at unexpected time and it really does enjoy giving surprises...

Confusing and philosophical... aint it ?? but this is wat life is all about.... people willingly or unwillingly have to be prepared for life's surprises... Y cant life give us wat we want or wat we expect at the rite time....

I remember the quote : 'Life is like a taxi. The meter just keeps a-ticking whether you are getting somewhere or just standing still. "

"For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin--real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life!!!!!!!!!!!! "

Sad but True..................

I love you...... do I Really????????

Here the same guy goes again (remember the last blog?? )

One of the way ppl fall in love.. or so they believe especially when Someone loves them..

As in..

Raja loves Rani because Rani loves Raja..

Raja does not have a reason to love Rani but does not have a reason to not love her either.. so till the time Raja finds a reason.. he will continue to love her..

Also.. there is the ego and self appreciation thing because for the first time in Raja's life has someone given him so much importance and attention.. obviously... he is gonna fall for it..

The only thing in his mind will be rani...and slowly he would start liking the good qualities of rani and miss the stupidities that rani does... and one fine day.. he will realize.. he is in love...

Moral of story.. I love u because u love me and you are the only one who loves me but when ur love for me is not a novelty or someone else equally loves me.. my love for you will diminish..

Is it Really the case always??

Quick Compatibility Test!!!

Well, this is one such blog which i read recently on my friend's Blogsite ( http://www.bablus.com/bblog/ ) ... and liked it so much tht i pasted it on my blogsite. Its so true!!! Here it goes:


Quick compatability Test

Arrange marriage..
meeting one..
what do u do.. what do u like.. what are ur hobbies..

u have answers to all of this..now decide whether u have the right match...
seems difficult.. sort of.. suggesting a quick acid test.. go for a walk on a busy road preferably.. one with a divider and loads of traffic..now cross the road..

Note :
1. Dont hold each others hand
2. Dont look at each other, jst focus on the cars and try to cross the road..
3. Dont wait for the road to clear completely to cross.. cross while some movement of cars is on...if both of can cross the road together.. in between same set of cars... (difficult to explain)

u feel.. u have got the right match.. Have you really ??? Is that what arranged marriage is all about ??? Well Keep Guessing!!!

Namastey London!!!!!!

'Main jahan rahoon, main kahin bhi hoon, teri yaad saath hai….'

Brilliantly sung by Rahat Fateh Ali Khan and excellently supported by Krishna, this is one of the most innovative songs of this year so far that I’ve heard. Everything is in good measures. A fine imagery from Javed Akhtar’s pen and as the song peaks , its as if the heart is crying for a love that is lost in the isolation of loneliness. A song worth listening many times over.

'Namastey London' is one such film that tells the story of a newly wed couple who belong to different ends of the world but are brought together by destiny to share a relation which is considered to be the most divine of all - the one of man and wife!

A movie which is worth watching, a movie which is full of emotions. This surely can be a movie for people who have fallen in love once and have sacrificed their love for wat-so-ever reasons, a person who has sacrificed in love.

A person who yearns for a company, who is tired of loneliness, who wants to come out of a relation, who wants to fall in a relation, go watch it…

Make sure of the company with whom you decide to go out with. Deciding to go out with an Ex may be a good idea but only if you want to get back together …. It might bring back fond memories, would want you to cry, would want you to come back in a relation.

And if you want to come out of a relation, plzzzzzzzzz refrain from going with ex’s or family…. Go out wid friends and chill!!!!

All in all ---- a good movie!!!

Kya maine Socha....aur Kya hua!!!!!

man...... i was so excited in last week.....assuming tht there is a long long long weekend (sat-sun-mon) coming where i can enjoy to my fullest... had made several plans wid friends and family....

Thought will go out for a 3 day trip with family....pata chala....dad is having a medical camp..so cant take a leave.... then thought will make up something with office group.....pata chala....most of them are moving out with their loved ones n familes.... and some have their new year coming up.... then again thought of making plans wid other close buddies...... tht too went berseck!!!! man........... y do people ditch at last moment!!!!

I really feel like singing this song.... ' dil ke armaan aasoonon mein beh gaye'.... all plans flopped.... someone has truly said....dont make plans beforehand..u never know whether they wud fail or materialise.

kya maine socha....aur kya hua.!!!!! sat went just like tht.... met up wid my best buddy...sunday...half sunday is alrdy passed dunno the schedule for other half... and monday as usual.... no schedule....

The only gud part of this weekend was tht i cud help my close friend to get her tickets to delhi to be next to her Ex-BF to celebrate his birthday (soooooooooooooo cute...aint it) ...... really was very very happy to see a smile on her face!!!

i really had wished to do a lotttttttttttt over this long weekend....but thn its not often tht u get wat u want rite!!!!!

My First Blog!!!!

Hey folks,

I always used to ask my friends to teach me how to blog....and they used to tell me its simple...just write ur thoughts out....express wat u r thinking!!! thts a blog.....

Well this is my first ever attempt to write a blog.....so ppl who are into blogging big time...wud have to read this blog as a naive attempt to start blogging!!!!!!

This blog writing has been delayed since last 2 weeks.... had alrdy booked a url for writing blogs but thn never found the enthusiasm or the time to write it...... well time toh mila but thn mann nahi kiya.... Being into HR profile, have developed lots of mood swings... one moment i m in a happy mood, enthusiastically thinking as to wat to do next....but next moment....everything goes hay-wire!!!

I always thought wat wud i write in my first blog....discussed wid my friends as to wat has to be written n stuff...thn came onto one consensus...just write your heartout!!!!!!!!

Now that i have taken up this act of writing blogs, will try to continue writing even if it doesnt make sense to most of the bloggers!!!

I look forward to share my thoughts and view points with you people!!! (hopefully on a continual basis)