Memorandum of Understanding for a marriage!!!

1. Groom will be responsible for sharing 50 % of cooking, cleaning & dusting on all Saturdays and Sundays and National Holidays except when on tour.

2. Groom will strictly adhere to a wake up time between 6 AM to 6 PM on holidays and will make sincere efforts to wake up in the morning.

3. Groom will observe silence and not disturb bride while watching F.R.I.E.N.D. S or anything else on TV. This rule is absolutely non-negotiable.

4. Groom acknowledges and accepts the inclination of bride to be occasionally moody and exibit unexpected behaviour.

5. Groom's decision on the following matters will be final and binding. Future of Indian Cricket, Finance, daily wake up times and diet.

6. Bride will observe 'do not disturb' policy during any cricket matches, involving India. This is applicable to grooms also.

7. Bride will swear to promote and tolerate the cricket career of groom at any such time it surfaces or materialises.

8. Bride acknowledges and accepts the inclination of the groom to be occasionally moody and exhibit unexpected behaviour.

9. Bride's decision and judgement on the following matters will be final and binding: Photography, Entertainment, Fitness, Internet Usage, Shopping, Travel, Music, Television, and Foreign Relations.

What Makes a Great Life Partner???

• Someone who knows what you need before you say it.
• Someone who knows when to laugh and when to cry.
• Someone who truly listens when you have something to say.
• Someone that's there for you during the good and bad times.
• Someone who loves you with all their heart and soul.
• Someone who is interested in reality and not as a fashion display.
• Someone who is caring, honest, open & Responsive
• Someone you can trust them like a sibling, confide in like a friend but most of all, love as the great lover they are.
• Someone who is never critical and ill-tempered in respect to your needs.
• Someone who knows when things have to be compromised in the relationship.
• Someone who understands listening is a key, but using what is heard is even more important.
• Someone who's there for you no matter what.
• Someone who is trustful, a friend and someone who gives a shoulder to cry on.
• Someone with a great sense of humor.
• Someone who has things in common with you.
• Someone who takes time to listen and enjoy you for who you are and tries not to make you something else.
• Someone with a constant open ear, open heart, and open mind to accept and love people for who the really are.
• Someone who will always be there to support your ideas without argument and love you for everything that you are.
• Someone that can get a point across without yelling.
• Someone that remembers all the cute stupid stuff you love.
• Someone that has a personality with qualities you don't have yourself, but admire greatly in them.
• Someone who realizes you're two separate people, and appreciates the differences.
• Someone who can sense a mood problem, and not take it personally.
• Someone who understands the difference between PMS, and a real problem.
• Someone who can make you happy when your sad.
• Someone who tells you the truth even if you don't want to hear it.
• Someone who will not hurt you intentionally.
• Someone who is a sweet, romantic person who cherishes you no matter what.
• Someone that you can laugh with.
• Someone who you can feel comfortable with and that you don't care what kind of weird stuff they see you do because you know they will still love you no matter what.
• Someone who will love you in spite of your little idiosyncrasies.
• Someone that would do anything to show how much they care.
• Someone who is a great pal, a great kisser, and a great lover!
• Someone who allows you to be yourself around them.
• Someone who will respect you.
• Someone who cherishes your hopes and is kind to your dreams.
• Someone who knows you're not perfect, but treats you as though you are.
• Someone who listens with their heart and is your source of inspiration

Top 5 Signs to know where your relation is standing!

One day, you are madly in love. You're cuddling on the couch, reading love poems and feeding each other sushi. And that's when it happens: Your partner sits you down for the "It's-Not-You, It's-Me" talk. You're confused and left wondering, "How could I have missed the signs?" Breaking up is never easy. Your ego and heart are bound to get bruised. But if you could just see the breakup coming, it might make the whole business easier to stomach

Top five signs you're about to get dumped:

1. Picking fights: No one is saying you have to get along 24/7. Constructive conflict can actually be good for your relationship. But if you find that your partner has become argumentative over petty issues like your clothes or choice of restaurant, that should serve as a warning sign that he/she may be looking for an excuse to bail.

2. Forgetting to call: Used to be that your phone would ring all day long with your sweetie wanting to make plans or calling just to say, "I love you." Now your significant other doesn't even call when he/she is running three hours late. It may seem obvious, but going from speed dial to a blocked number is a sure sign that your relationship may be nearing its expiration date.

3. Changing their stripes: A major change in appearance can be a sign that your partner is looking toward greener pastures. Whether they've chopped off their hair, lost some weight or gone from a normal hair to a Coloured haired babe, major cosmetic changes should be noted. Of course, there's nothing wrong with being a little vain, but if the change is accompanied by any of the other signs listed here, you may need to get ready to go solo.

4. Criticizing: If your sweetie isn't feeling you anymore, don't be surprised if he/she becomes less tolerant of everything, from how you brush your teeth to how you tie your shoes. Constant criticism is a telltale sign that your days as a twosome are numbered.

5. Losing sexual interest: A healthy sex life can make or break a relationship. If you find that your partner is becoming more sexually aloof, you need to get to the root of the issue. While it's natural to have less sex as you settle into a comfortable groove together, waiting weeks or months to have sexual contact is a sign that something is amiss.

Now that you know the warning signs, don't panic. Just because your partner exhibits some of these behaviors, that doesn't necessarily mean the relationship is over. In fact, it's usually a combination of signs and not one isolated incident that foreshadows a breakup. If you're worried that your partner is itching to get out, the most important thing you can do is sit down and discuss your issues in an honest and open manner. If you take these signs as your cue to improve communication, your relationship may just have a fighting chance

I love you...... do I Really????????

Here the same guy goes again (remember the last blog?? )

One of the way ppl fall in love.. or so they believe especially when Someone loves them..

As in..

Raja loves Rani because Rani loves Raja..

Raja does not have a reason to love Rani but does not have a reason to not love her either.. so till the time Raja finds a reason.. he will continue to love her..

Also.. there is the ego and self appreciation thing because for the first time in Raja's life has someone given him so much importance and attention.. obviously... he is gonna fall for it..

The only thing in his mind will be rani...and slowly he would start liking the good qualities of rani and miss the stupidities that rani does... and one fine day.. he will realize.. he is in love...

Moral of story.. I love u because u love me and you are the only one who loves me but when ur love for me is not a novelty or someone else equally loves me.. my love for you will diminish..

Is it Really the case always??

Quick Compatibility Test!!!

Well, this is one such blog which i read recently on my friend's Blogsite ( http://www.bablus.com/bblog/ ) ... and liked it so much tht i pasted it on my blogsite. Its so true!!! Here it goes:


Quick compatability Test

Arrange marriage..
meeting one..
what do u do.. what do u like.. what are ur hobbies..

u have answers to all of this..now decide whether u have the right match...
seems difficult.. sort of.. suggesting a quick acid test.. go for a walk on a busy road preferably.. one with a divider and loads of traffic..now cross the road..

Note :
1. Dont hold each others hand
2. Dont look at each other, jst focus on the cars and try to cross the road..
3. Dont wait for the road to clear completely to cross.. cross while some movement of cars is on...if both of can cross the road together.. in between same set of cars... (difficult to explain)

u feel.. u have got the right match.. Have you really ??? Is that what arranged marriage is all about ??? Well Keep Guessing!!!